If someone hasn't checked up on you in 2-6 months, they don't really fuck with you . And they don't deserve to know what's going on in your life now .

the-ornation:

languill:

naijapoet:

unknownwonderful:

niggacelli:

THIS INCLUDES FAMILY.

honestly. 

!!!!!

Dude, it’s totally normal and healthy to go 2+ months without talking to people but to still care about them.

I can go months without talking to friends (either because I’m busy or bc it’s been so long that I don’t know how to start a conversation with them) and still run into them and spend hours together just like old times.

Just because you don’t currently have time to spend with someone that isn’t in your immediate life doesn’t mean you can’t care about each other. This happens a lot as you get older.

I have close friends that I sometimes don’t even see once a year. Life gets in the way and sometimes there’s nothing to be done about it but wait for an opportunity where you’re both actually around. Nothing’s changed between my friends and I and we pick up like it’s only been a couple days. Those are some of my favorite friends. I don’t feel pressured to communicate for the sake of communication and neither do they.